Do Opposites Attract or Is Commonality Better?

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You frequently hear that opposites attract but then also hear that like attracts like. Which is better? If you’re a follower of my blog then you know that I believe commonality is crucial to making a relationship last long-term. You need to have common ethics, values, and goals — similar …

First Date or One Night Stand?

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There is no guarantee to see each other again if you have sex on the first date. So if it’s going really well and you decide to have sex that first night, be really clear that you may be choosing a one night stand. If that’s not ok with you, …

How to Turn a Hook Up Into a Relationship

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Hooking up with someone you’re crazy about becomes lonely and frustrating if it doesn’t move forward and become a full relationship. Well, nothing changes if nothing changes; you need to stop having sex so you can get your other needs met. You teach people how to treat you. By just hooking …

How to Flirt on a First Date

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If your date doesn’t know you’re interested he or she won’t be, and you won’t get a second date. Flirt with your body language: lean in close, lightly touch their hand or arm, and make lots of eye contact while smiling. Even if he or she wasn’t interested they may …