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Why are you still single?

Let Me Help You Take 3 Steps To Create a Happy, Lasting Relationship

 The path to finding your soul mate starts with improving your relationship with yourself. 

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10+ Hours Coaching Videos

80 individual coaching videos, spread out thoughtfully in step-by-step, easy to follow actions, will keep you moving forward without getting overwhelmed throughout My Best Me Action Plan.

Lifetime Access

There is no pressure to finish, you will have lifetime access to the Action Plan, so you can move forward at the pace that feels right for you, without getting overwhelmed ...and come back any time.

FREE Bonuses Worth $4000

I always want my clients to get their needs met and feel cared about. So that’s why when you join My Best Me Action Plan today I’m giving you these 2 free bonuses worth $4000 to make sure you get the results you want.

What This Action Plan Can Do For You

All your relationships that didn't work out have one thing in common...you. But that's great news because you are the only person you can change. My favorite expression is NOTHING CHANGES IF NOTHING CHANGES.
I will help you improve your primary relationship, the one with yourself. I'll guide you through my 3-Step Action Plan to help you become your best you, choose the right person, and make it last.

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Healthy Boundaries

You teach people how to treat you whether you're aware of it or not. You may be unconsciously sabotaging your relationships. To get your needs met you need to enforce healthy boundaries.

Looks Don't Make You Happy

Raised Self-Esteem

Take action to truly love yourself and raise your self-esteem, so you can change your pattern and make better choices. Like attracts like, as you get healthier you'll be attracted to a healthier person...and healthier people will be very attracted to you.

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Unpacked Baggage

To have a good relationship, you need to know everything you do to contribute, whether good, bad, or ugly. You need to create your own personalized red flags.

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Effective Communication

How well do you express your thoughts and feelings? Learn how your delivery makes all the difference and create deeper emotional intimacy.

My Choices About Sex

Better Choices About Sex

Your choices about sex have a profound effect on your self-esteem and your relationships. Sex can keep you addicted to an unhealthy situation. Don't confuse sex for love.

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Smart Goals

Change your hopes and dreams into actionable goals to stop putting off and putting up with unfinished projects and tasks and create the life you truly desire.

I'm such a better person because of you Donna Barnes.

Kevin

Palm Beach, Florida

About Donna Barnes

Unlike Other Dating Coaches
NO Better Teacher Than Experience

This Action Plan is unlike anything else you’ve seen before because I’m uniquely different. There is no better teacher than experience. After a complicated childhood, I lost my Mom as a teenager, moved to New York City with a modeling agency, in the 80's when Manhattan was a pretty wild place. I studied acting, which is human behavior, and moved to Los Angeles in the 90's. Hollywood was certainly eye-opening. They used to call it the casting couch. I fully understand why it’s now called the "Me Too" movement, because just about every starlet has their own horror story. I was primarily selfish and broke a lot of hearts, until I had my heart ripped out at age 30, before "ghosting" was even a term and there was no internet to search for answers.

I returned to New York, and got so good at being single that I was asked to be in one of the very first reality shows, "The Real Sex & The City", that lead to my first magazine advice column and I co-hosted 205 episodes of "Naked New York", a talk show about sex & relationships. I went to NYU, starting coaching others, wrote my book, and became the relationship expert for Good Morning America.

What makes me better suited to help you become The Best Version of You is the multiple devastating breakups I caused and suffered through first-hand over those three decades — knowledge was the only thing that made me feel better, so each and every painful experience further enriched my ability to help you.

As my long-term clients can tell you, I’ve even learned from the 100’s of people I have now coached, which has made me even better. My brain has always grabbed onto tidbits of facts and knowledge, and I’m so proud of how I’ve now compiled it all into a proven Action Plan to help you recover from Your Breakup.  

About Donna Barnes

Unlike Other Dating Coaches.
NO Better Teacher Than Experience.

This Action Plan is unlike anything else you’ve seen before because I’m uniquely different. There is no better teacher than experience. After a complicated childhood, I lost my Mom as a teenager, moved to New York City with a modeling agency, in the 80's when Manhattan was a pretty wild place. I studied acting, which is human behavior, and moved to Los Angeles in the 90's. Hollywood was certainly eye-opening. They used to call it the casting couch. I fully understand why it’s now called the "Me Too" movement, because just about every starlet has their own horror story. I was primarily selfish and broke a lot of hearts, until I had my heart ripped out at age 30, before "ghosting" was even a term and there was no internet to search for answers.

I returned to New York, and got so good at being single that I was asked to be in one of the very first reality shows, "The Real Sex & The City", that lead to my first magazine advice column and I co-hosted 205 episodes of "Naked New York", a talk show about sex & relationships. I went to NYU, starting coaching others, wrote my book, and became the relationship expert for Good Morning America.

What makes me better suited to help you become The Best Version of You is the multiple devastating breakups I caused and suffered through first-hand over those three decades — knowledge was the only thing that made me feel better, so each and every painful experience further enriched my ability to help you.

As my long-term clients can tell you, I’ve even learned from the 100’s of people I have now coached, which has made me even better. My brain has always grabbed onto tidbits of facts and knowledge, and I’m so proud of how I’ve now compiled it all into a proven Action Plan to help you recover from Your Breakup.  

Online Action Plan Walkthrough

 Just about every client I have coached has needed help raising their self-esteem. So as you work your way through the 3 steps of My Best Me Action Plan, I will continually talk about boosting your self-esteem, and things you need to stop doing that are diminishing your self-esteem. I’ll freely share every secret I have learned in my 50+ years, with personal and client stories that I never share publicly, in an effort to help you benefit from my knowledge and experiences, to prevent you from repeating any of my mistakes.

Welcome to my
Best me Action Plan

Give me three steps to help you be your best!

I’m sharing with you every single secret I have acquired in my 50+ years, including things I have never shared publically, and giving you step-by-step encouragement in more than 10 hours of coaching, 80 individual videos, spread out thoughtfully with easy to follow actions, to keep you moving forward without getting overwhelmed throughout my 3-Step Action Plan. And, there is no pressure to finish. You will have lifetime access to this Action Plan, so you can move forward at the pace that feels right for you, and come back whenever you want.

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Action Step 1: Fixing me

Raise Your Self-Esteem And Feel Empowered
Control your insecurities and anxiety
Look At what you've done right & wrong in your past relationships
Use Boundaries Appropriately To Teach People How To Treat You
Identify Your Patterns To Learn From Your Mistakes
Set SMART Goals And Get Rid Of Any Obstacles That Have Been Holding You Back From Living The Life You Truly Desire.
Recommended Reading List To Advance Your Growth Even Further
10 Rules of Dating

Action Step 2: Choosing wisely

Attraction and love are only a small part of how you should choose a partner. This step will help you know who is truly right for you.

How to Know who is right for you
Your own personalized red flags & Deal-Breakers
How & where to meet someone
How to flirt, feel sexy, & look your best
Tips for The first few dates as The New You
Dating as a single parent (or if you're dating one)
Your choices about sex
Rebounds & Hookups
Sexually Abused?
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Action Step 3: Making it last

Once you have found someone special, this step will give you tools and tips to help you create a true partnership that will last forever.

Dating Tips To Avoid Another Breakup
Protecting Your Heart And Setting A Good Pace
When to talk about a full commitment
Communicate Better To Achieve Emotional Intimacy
How To Handle a partner with Commitment issues
Identify toxic behavior
Identify A Narcissist, Sociopath, BPD, Or Addict
Obsession or true love

What Makes My Action Plan Even Better

I’M ALSO GIVING YOU 2 FREE BONUSES WORTH $4000AS MY WELCOME GIFT WHEN YOU REGISTER FOR MY BEST VERSION OF ME ACTION PLAN!

If you’re familiar with my personal coaching then you know I always want my clients to get their needs met and feel cared about. So that’s why when you join My Best Me Action Plan today I’m giving you these 2 free bonuses worth $4000 to make sure you get the results you want just like any of my personal coaching clients.

Here's what I'm giving you...

Free bonus #1

Private telegram chat group

(Value: $3500)

24/7 you can communicate with me, and/or other members who are also single and working on becoming the best version of themselves, which makes them very attractive.
Someone helpful to reach out to in a weak moment, to never feel alone, and to get help to feel great about yourself.
Priceless if you're having a panic attack, or need a pick-me-up, or intervention to not contact your ex or the new person you're crazy about!
I'm not promising that I will always be available but i can promise i will always respond as quickly as i can
Safer Communication than on a dating app!

Free bonus #2

Interactive quizzes, checklists,
& growth worksheets

(Value: $500)

6 QUIZZES

How Well Do I Communicate? 
Am I Giving Away My Power?
Are My Choices About Sex Hurting Me?
Is My Ex Worth Getting Back?
Am I ready for a relationship, or just a rebound?
Who is right for me?

8 CHECKLISTS

What Is Toxic?
What is a narcissist?
What is an addict? 
How to Identify cheating
Am I missing boundaries?
Do I have abandonment issues?
Am I emotionally unavailable?
Is this a rebound?

10 GROWTH WORKSHEETS

(The same ones I give my personal coaching clients!)

Raise my self-Esteem
Finding My True & Authentic Self
What are my patterns?
Evaluate my relationship Behavior
What are my deal-Breakers
Become more emotionally available
balancing my life
Setting Action Goals
What I'm putting off & putting up with
How to Actively Listen

The Straight Forward Truth

I'm not saying you will become empowered and feel irresistible overnight. There is no magic formula to make you immediately forget your pain, and feel lovable; as much as we all wish there was. It is entirely up to how much you're willing to work on your issues and grow. I truly believe if you fully commit to all my action steps, and do the necessary self-growth, you will become a better version of yourself and create the happy life you desire. 

What I Can Guarantee

I honestly believe this is the best Action Plan to help you attract and keep the right partner for you. I have now spent more than 200 hours, putting together 3 decades of knowledge into this action plan for you, and it offers so much more than I could possibly fit into a few coaching sessions, plus it will allow me to truly be there for you 24/7.  

I’m sharing with you every single secret I’ve acquired in my 50+ years. And giving you step-by-step encouragement to learn what you don't know without holding anything back. It’s 100% up to date, fresh, and in-depth. It’s not a bunch of abstract theory but rather a lifetime of knowledge that shows you step-by-step how to move forward and be happy either with or without a relationship. But I believe if any program is going to help you find your soul mate, then it’s this one.

Why am i still single?

Your Questions Answered

Do i need to be single?

No matter if you just can't find the right person, or just want to keep the relationship you have, this action plan will help you look at your patterns and issues, so you can make good choices and feel empowered to attract and keep the right person for you.

Who is this online course meant for?

Anyone, anywhere in the world. 16 or older, any sexual identity or preference, if you're looking for your soul mate, or trying to fix the relationship you have, this plan will really help you.

Can I afford it?

This course is much more valuable than a string of failed dates. I kept the price down by not including personal coaching, but you can add the optional Zoom call with me, and there is also an easy 4-month payment plan available. View Prices

Fix Your Relationship

Still Undecided?

You don't need to be single to benefit from this Action Plan.

Recognize if you are truly right for each other (or not).
Stop any sabotaging behavior so you can make it last.
Communicate effectively to get your needs met and be happy.
Recognize what you can do to become a better partner.

My Best Me Action Plan Gives You Empowerment

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Here's exactly what you're getting...

Instant Access to the Action Plan
Lifetime Access
Bonus #1: Private Telegram Chat Group
Bonus #2: Interactive Quizzes, Checklists, & Coaching Worksheets
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$3500 Value
$500 Value

Total Value $4,600  Today's Price $297

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Featured Testimonials from My Clients

"I'm such a better person because of you Donna Barnes."

Kevin, Palm Beach, FL

"No one should feel alone or lost as I initially did during my breakup. Donna was the one who enabled me to feel that I could make it through, and I did, with all of her spot on advice."

Karen, Los Angeles, CA

"I realize I was able to achieve more with you in only 13 hours than I was able to achieve with all the other coaches I had worked with in 40+ combined hours of coaching."

Braeden, London, England

"I found Donna's insight, feedback, and advice to be spot-on. I have since healed and I am now ready to date again, something I never thought possible several months earlier."

Ryan, Chicago, Il

"Donna clearly possesses both experience, and the gift of  insight, which enables her to support her clients through painful breakups and help shift their trajectory towards a clearer and more fulfilling path."

Laura, Miami, FL

"Although my experience with a psychiatrist and other counselor were helpful, neither of them were able to show me which options truly existed, and how to make the right decisions. Donna always had the right advice, and as we all know, during a breakup we sometimes can't seem to keep it together."

Lisa, New York, NY

I'll Teach You Everything I Know

If you need an unbiased, sympathetic ear to give you insight into what you don't know and help you process what you’re feeling, I’m here for you! I genuinely understand how difficult it is to be single, or pining for someone, feeling abandoned or betrayed, and desperately wanting a lasting, loving true partnership.

If you’re hurting or simply confused about what to do or think, call me, I’ll help you feel better. I’m easy to talk to and have years of experience to draw from to give you answers to deal with your issues. I've been there at least a dozen times myself in my 50+ years, so I truly understand how abandoned you feel; how devastating the future now seems, and how hard it is to eat or sleep, to get through each day.

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I'll truly listen to hear what you need.
I'll give you insight to what you're doing wrong.
I won't push you to do anything before you're ready.

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