If you’re too shy or uncomfortable to hold eye contact with someone you like then your body language is saying the opposite of what you feel. Your date will assume you’re just not into them if you’re not being attentive enough on dates. First dates can be scary and cause …
Complaints & Cynicism Are Negative Red Flags
Energy is contagious. People want to surround themselves with positive people. If you complain a lot, are cynical, or are a hater you’re waving a major negative red flag to your date, and draining your date’s positive energy. You may not even recognize that you’re being negative. It’s common to …
Meeting For Drinks for a First Date
Meeting for drinks has become the most popular first date option, especially if you meet online. Because you usually know within the first few moments of meeting if you have potential or not. If you like each other you can always extend the date by asking her if she’d like …
Catch-22 of Being Single After 40
After 40 the best way to meet someone is online. However, the FBI warns that’s the target age for dating scammers. There in lies the catch 22 of being single after 40. But Donna Barnes Dating has Online Dating Protector to prevent you from being scammed. Our team of highly …
Subtle Red Flags You Should Look Out for When Dating
When a relationship doesn’t work out or ends badly, clients frequently ask me if there was something they should have seen in the beginning. The answer is almost always yes. But they were too caught up in the seduction to notice that it wasn’t a good fit. You have to …
Texting Etiquette In the Dating Phase
Texting has changed relationships—and not for the better. There really does need to be a texting etiquette in the dating phase. I’m not a fan of rules but I do feel there needs to be one big bold rule about text messaging: NEVER send a text message to communicate emotions …
Is Superficial Conversation Keeping You Single?
Do you know what to talk about on a first date? Do you even give any thought to it? If you’re having a lot of first dates but not many second or third dates you might want to stop just winging your conversation. You may be portraying yourself as superficial. …
Are Your Dating Manners & Hygiene Keeping You Single?
I read in a man’s online profile that he was requesting women to shower before their date because he had been out with too many women who smelled bad. I was shocked. Theses simple grooming tips will make sure you’re not possibly turning your dates off with bad dating manners & hygiene. …
How to Flirt on a First Date
If your date doesn’t know you’re interested he or she won’t be, and you won’t get a second date. How to flirt on a first date is to use your body language: lean in close, lightly touch their hand or arm, and make lots of eye contact while smiling. Even …
Bathroom Humor on a First Date
A first date should be fun but it’s also about making a great first impression. If things are going well why take a chance at turning your date off by talking about bodily functions? Bathroom humor is offensive to a lot of people. Especially if you’re a girl. You may …
Appropriate First Date Conversation?
You want your date to get to know you, right? But how soon should you reveal personal details? What is appropriate first date conversation? The first date should be fun. It should be about finding out if you enjoy each other’s company. If you dive into all your deep dark secrets …
Are You Edgy or Just Rude?
Do you have an A-type personality that tends to take charge and sometimes be impatient? If so, you may be coming off as rude and turning off your date. You need to know if you’re being edgy or just rude. Confidence is very attractive but it becomes control if you don’t …
Healthy Curiosity or Interrogation?
It’s great if you want to get to know your date better, but make sure the conversation is evenly exchanged. No one likes being fed rapid-fire questions. It’s invasive and a huge turnoff. You need to know the difference, are you exhibiting healthy curiosity or interrogation? When you’re having any conversation you should …
Still Talking About Your Ex?
After a painful breakup, thinking and talking about your ex will only keep you in pain. Additionally, you have to go through the 5 stages of grief before you can move on and date again. If you’re not capable of being in the moment, enjoying new experiences without comparing everything …
How to Have Kissable Breath
A first kiss can be a memorable moment…unless you have bad breath. How you kiss can make or break your chances of making a great connection. A great kiss can, and usually does, sweep you off your feet. Conversely, a bad kiss can, and usually does, kill any budding attraction—pushing …