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WITH MORE THAN 30 YEARS OF PERSONAL DATING & RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE DONNA GIVES CLIENTS A COMBINATION OF PRACTICAL HINDSIGHT, INTELLIGENCE, AND ACADEMIC KNOWLEDGE.


WITH MORE THAN 30 YEARS OF PERSONAL DATING & RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE DONNA BARNES GIVES CLIENTS A COMBINATION OF PRACTICAL HINDSIGHT, INTELLIGENCE, AND ACADEMIC KNOWLEDGE.


Donna's coaching services have been recognized by:

In a Relationship

In a Relationship

ARGUING AND AT AN IMPASSE?
TRYING TO FORGIVE BETRAYAL?
WANT TO RECAPTURE THE ROMANCE?
AFRAID OR DON'T KNOW HOW TO LEAVE?


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Single

Single

STILL SEARCHING FOR THE ONE?
FRUSTRATED OR AFRAID OF DATING APPS?
CONFUSED ABOUT SOMEONE?
STARTING OVER AFTER DEATH OR DIVORCE?


Dating is hard. It's so rare to connect with someone; then turning it into a lasting relationship is even harder. Well, it's all about your choices, actions, thoughts, and feelings. Nothing changes if nothing changes. However, changing yourself will change the way people respond to you. I will help you become the best version of yourself, and make you irresistible.

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Heartbroken 

Heartbroken 

WANT HIM OR HER BACK?
UNABLE TO DEAL WITH THE PAIN?
STUCK AND UNABLE TO MOVE ON?
CAN'T STOP TEXTING OR TRYING TO COMMUNICATE?


Be happy with or without your ex. Understanding what went wrong will help you let go and heal. Even if you do get back together something will have to change or you will just breakup again. Use this painful time to become the best version of yourself, so your next relationship will be your best yet — either with your ex, or someone better for you.

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"@Donna Barnes You should be getting far more views on YouTube. Brains and beauty seems to be a vanishing combo these days. There are some relationship coaches who couldn't think their way out of a wet paper bag. Seriously. The sad thing is people listen to them. Your insight and intelligent approach to relationships is refreshing and "old school" at the same time."

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Recent Blog Posts

Why you should date someone who is divorced
Why You Should Date Someone Who is Divorced
A lot of single people search for someone who’s “never been married”. I certainly do understand the romantic notion that Read more.
Confidence is Different Than Self-Esteem
Confidence is Different Than Self Esteem
Many highly successful people have tremendous confidence but low self-esteem. Confidence is different than self esteem. Do you know the difference? Self-esteem Read more.
Coaching Home 13
Be Careful With Others Feelings
Being negligent or insensitive with a lover’s feelings or worse intentionally hurting them is mean, and can cause you a Read more.
Are You The Rebound?
Are You The Rebound?
You always hear that you’re not supposed to talk about past relationships when you first start dating someone new. However, the one Read more.
Do Opposites Attract or Is Commonality Better?
Do Opposites Attract or Is Commonality Better?
You frequently hear that opposites attract but then also hear that like attracts like. So which is it? Do opposites Read more.
Insecurity is All in Your Head
Insecurity Is All In Your Head
Everyone is insecure on some level. We can feel unwanted, unloved, unappreciated, inadequate, undeserving, neglected, and so on. Fear is Read more.
Don't Get Married Younger Than 25
Don’t Get Married Younger Than 25
Falling in love is exciting. When you think you’ve found “the one” its fun to fantasize about walking down the aisle together. Read more.
5 Examples of Inappropriate Boundaries
5 Examples of Inappropriate Boundaries
Being in a relationship with someone doesn’t give you permission to be part of everything in their life. Time apart Read more.

Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

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Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

BUY NOW