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WITH MORE THAN 30 YEARS OF PERSONAL DATING & RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE DONNA GIVES CLIENTS A COMBINATION OF PRACTICAL HINDSIGHT, INTELLIGENCE, AND ACADEMIC KNOWLEDGE.


WITH MORE THAN 30 YEARS OF PERSONAL DATING & RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE DONNA BARNES GIVES CLIENTS A COMBINATION OF PRACTICAL HINDSIGHT, INTELLIGENCE, AND ACADEMIC KNOWLEDGE.


Donna's coaching services have been recognized by:

In a Relationship

In a Relationship

ARGUING AND AT AN IMPASSE?
TRYING TO FORGIVE BETRAYAL?
WANT TO RECAPTURE THE ROMANCE?
AFRAID OR DON'T KNOW HOW TO LEAVE?


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Single

Single

STILL SEARCHING FOR THE ONE?
FRUSTRATED OR AFRAID OF DATING APPS?
CONFUSED ABOUT SOMEONE?
STARTING OVER AFTER DEATH OR DIVORCE?


Dating is hard. It's so rare to connect with someone; then turning it into a lasting relationship is even harder. Well, it's all about your choices, actions, thoughts, and feelings. Nothing changes if nothing changes. However, changing yourself will change the way people respond to you. I will help you become the best version of yourself, and make you irresistible.

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Heartbroken 

Heartbroken 

WANT HIM OR HER BACK?
UNABLE TO DEAL WITH THE PAIN?
STUCK AND UNABLE TO MOVE ON?
CAN'T STOP TEXTING OR TRYING TO COMMUNICATE?


Be happy with or without your ex. Understanding what went wrong will help you let go and heal. Even if you do get back together something will have to change or you will just breakup again. Use this painful time to become the best version of yourself, so your next relationship will be your best yet — either with your ex, or someone better for you.

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Recent Blog Posts

10 Rules of Dating
10 Rules of Dating
My clients frequently ask me, “What are the rules of dating?” Well, I’m not a fan of dating rules because Read more.
How Do You Feel About Me?
How Do You Feel About Me?
Are you thinking about asking the person you’re dating, “How do you feel about me?” Let me save you from Read more.
Know And Enforce Your Deal Breakers
Know And Enforce Your Deal Breakers
People reveal themselves if you’re paying attention. So if you know and enforce your deal breakers it can be really Read more.
Being Impulsive Is Not Smart
Being Impulsive Is Not Smart
Thinking on your feet and responding immediately is not helpful to your relationship. I know many people are proud of Read more.
ad Dating Advice From Friends
How To Avoid Bad Dating Advice From Friends
Being single can be frustrating for many reasons. The annoyance of having to put up with everyone else’s opinion about Read more.
Coaching Home 13
Should I Take My Ex Back? Or Stay With My New Love?
After a breakup, most people don’t stop thinking about their ex until they fall in love with someone else. Therefore, Read more.
Told to Stop Yelling When You Didn't Feel You Were?
Told to Stop Yelling When You Didn’t Feel You Were?
Have you been told to stop yelling when you didn’t feel like you were yelling? You may have even replied, Read more.
Pay Attention to Clues of Bad Behavior (Red Flags)
Pay Attention to Clues of Bad Behavior (Red Flags)
After a breakup I always ask my clients if they know what went wrong. Just about all of them can point to Read more.


Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

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Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

BUY NOW