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WITH MORE THAN 30 YEARS OF PERSONAL DATING & RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE DONNA GIVES CLIENTS A COMBINATION OF PRACTICAL HINDSIGHT, INTELLIGENCE, AND ACADEMIC KNOWLEDGE.


WITH MORE THAN 30 YEARS OF PERSONAL DATING & RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE DONNA BARNES GIVES CLIENTS A COMBINATION OF PRACTICAL HINDSIGHT, INTELLIGENCE, AND ACADEMIC KNOWLEDGE.


Donna's coaching services have been recognized by:

In a Relationship

In a Relationship

ARGUING AND AT AN IMPASSE?
TRYING TO FORGIVE BETRAYAL?
WANT TO RECAPTURE THE ROMANCE?
AFRAID OR DON'T KNOW HOW TO LEAVE?


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Single

Single

STILL SEARCHING FOR THE ONE?
FRUSTRATED OR AFRAID OF DATING APPS?
CONFUSED ABOUT SOMEONE?
STARTING OVER AFTER DEATH OR DIVORCE?


Dating is hard. It's so rare to connect with someone; then turning it into a lasting relationship is even harder. Well, it's all about your choices, actions, thoughts, and feelings. Nothing changes if nothing changes. However, changing yourself will change the way people respond to you. I will help you become the best version of yourself, and make you irresistible.

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Heartbroken 

Heartbroken 

WANT HIM OR HER BACK?
UNABLE TO DEAL WITH THE PAIN?
STUCK AND UNABLE TO MOVE ON?
CAN'T STOP TEXTING OR TRYING TO COMMUNICATE?


Be happy with or without your ex. Understanding what went wrong will help you let go and heal. Even if you do get back together something will have to change or you will just breakup again. Use this painful time to become the best version of yourself, so your next relationship will be your best yet — either with your ex, or someone better for you.

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"@Donna Barnes You should be getting far more views on YouTube. Brains and beauty seems to be a vanishing combo these days. There are some relationship coaches who couldn't think their way out of a wet paper bag. Seriously. The sad thing is people listen to them. Your insight and intelligent approach to relationships is refreshing and "old school" at the same time."

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Recent Blog Posts

How to Avoid Heartbreak
First and foremost, when your new sweetheart tells you something about himself, believe him! I can’t stress this enough. If Read more.
How to Keep a New Relationship
You have to live in the present. Put your attention on what is immediately in front of you and take Read more.
How to Recognize True Love
Love can conquer all. It sounds so simple, right? Wrong! One of the hardest concepts to accept is that loving Read more.
Blame is a Junk Food Flag
If your partner blames you for anything that doesn’t go right, no matter how small, she’s probably the defensive type Read more.
Stop Making Excuses for Your Lover
People do what they want to do. If you always remind yourself of that, it really is quite simple. As Read more.
Energy is Contagious
I believe a person’s happiness level dictates his or her degree of patience and compassion. Think about it. When you’re Read more.
You Are What You Think You Are
Finding a happy relationship is not really about what you look like. Or what a man or woman thinks of Read more.
Don’t Test Your Partner
Playing games in a relationship doesn’t work. Games create competition, and a winner and loser. Playing games is manipulative and Read more.

Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

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Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships: Recipes for Healthy Choices


Are you waiting for someone to change back into the person you fell in love with? Do you fear you won't find anyone better for you if you leave or let go? Are you confused about what went wrong? Donna's book bottom lines how to make your relationships healthy, and more importantly how to tell when things have gone bad.

Bad relationships are pretty much the same as junk food.

 "A welcome addition to the self-help genre that aims to heal body and mind." Kirkus Reviews

BUY NOW