Is My Ex Worth Getting Back Quiz | The Love Coach

1. You’re making dinner for your ex, and you accidentally leave one of the side dishes in the oven a little too long. What would your ex do?

My ex would tell me not to worry about it and say that everything else was terrific.

My ex would tell me how I could have done it better.

My ex would remind me about the last time I didn’t cook something to perfection.

My ex would yell at me for ruining dinner and call me incompetent (or some other name).

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2. You’re going to the movies and your ex asks you to find out what time a specific feature is playing. S/he is late, and when you get there the flick is sold out. How would your ex respond?

My ex would give me a bunch of excuses for why s/he was late.

I'd apologize and my ex would let me take the blame.

My ex would apologize for being late and ask if I’d like to do something else instead.

My ex would blame me for not buying the tickets online and would be in a bad mood for the rest of the night.

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3. You run into an old flame that you haven’t seen or spoken to in several years. It’s a friendly encounter, but nothing more. How would you handle it with your ex if you were still together?

I couldn’t tell my ex because s/he’d get crazy and accuse me of cheating.

I'd keep it to myself. My ex didn’t really ask about what I did.

I'd tell my ex, but then I'd have to defend myself against accusatory questions: What were you wearing? Did you kiss? Will you see each other again?

I'd tell my ex, and s/he'd ask if there is any reason to be concerned. I assure him or her there is nothing to worry about, and s/he'd thank me for being transparent.

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4. If you were upset about something your ex did, how would you address the situation?

I would feel comfortable to tell my ex, but s/he would usually get defensive.

I wouldn’t tell my ex, because it probably wouldn’t make a difference anyway.

I would tell my ex, it would open communication to make things better in the future.

If I told my ex it would start an argument. So I usually just put up with it. My ex would usually blame me, and I’d end up apologizing to calm things down.

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5. You're at a party talking to a group of your friends when you casually mention an opinion about something that your ex doesn’t agree with. How does s/he react?

My ex would correct me and tell me to keep quiet.

My ex would laugh and roll his or her eyes.

My ex would make an excuse to my friends for my ignorance.

My ex wouldn't say anything about it in front of my friends but would ask to discuss it with me later.

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6. Which statement best describes your actions in your relationship with your ex?

I would speak up for what I wanted while still being thoughtful of my ex's needs.

I walked on eggshells to avoid arguments and keep things going smoothly.

I mostly just did what I wanted to do.

I was suspicious. I liked to check up on what my ex was doing.

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7. Your family is having a get-together and your ex, who has already met them, is invited. What would your ex do?

My ex would go, but probably be quiet and moody, making it hard for me to truly enjoy the visit.

My ex would make a lame excuse for why s/he couldn’t go or flat-out refuses to be around my family.

My ex loved my family and would happily go visit my family with me.

My ex would talk me out of going or make plans to do something I’ve been wanting to do, making me choose my ex over my family.

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8. When you disagreed about something with your ex, how did you handle it?

We would yell and argue a bit but usually make up fairly quickly.

My ex would scream at me and manipulate me into doing things his or her way.

My ex would walk out, and I wouldn’t hear from him or her for a while.

We could calmly discuss things until we reached a compromise.

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9. How do your friends and family feel about the way your ex treated you?

They don’t really have an opinion about my ex because they didn’t spend much (or any) time around us.

They thought my ex was ok, but they did hope I wasn't planning on marrying him or her.

They don’t like my ex and keep telling me I could do better. But they don’t know my ex like I do.

They really liked him because they saw how happy I was.

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10. How did your ex make you feel in your relationship?

I felt loved, which made me feel comfortable to openly love back. We had a true partnership.

We had some problems to work out, but I was mostly happy.

I felt like I was the only one who was trying. I think I loved my ex more than he or she loved me.

Frustrated! I loved my ex a lot, but I wasn't really happy.

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