How Well Do I Communicate Quiz | The Love Coach

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I ask my partner specifically.

I expect my partner to know what I want without having to tell him/her.

I drop hints so my partner will know what I want.

2. When we have an argument or disagreement...

I don’t like to be wrong, so I fight to win. I’ll say whatever I need to say to get what I want.

I refuse to argue; if saying I don’t want to talk about it didn’t work, then I'll leave.

I'm willing to talk it out until we reached an agreement (even if it is to agree to disagree).

I have a hard time letting it go; I often end up using it as ammunition to reinforce my point in future disagreements.

I put it behind me and try to uphold any compromises I agree to.

I uphold what I promised for a week or so but usually go back to the way things were before.

I have a hard time not interrupting to respond to each and every thing as soon as it is said.

I get defensive and usually end up trying to change his or her mind, or I just storm out.

I listen carefully to what s/he is saying and let him or her finish before responding.

Hold it inside until one day I can’t take it anymore, and then I blow up.

Scold him/her or make a sarcastic remark.

Tell him/her — in a calm, loving way — how it makes me feel.

I frequently acknowledge my partner's positive traits and share my good feelings about our relationship.

I usually say thank you for things my partner does, but I prefer to talk to my best friend about my feelings.

I have a hard time telling my partner what I think and feel.

It makes me very uncomfortable. I get quiet, stall for more time, or change the subject.

I say what I think s/he wants to hear.

I share my true thoughts and feelings too.

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