1. When your ex wanted you to do something...My ex would ask me specifically.My ex expected me to know what s/he wanted without having to tell me.My ex would drop hints so I would know what he or she wanted.Question 1 of 7 2. When we had an argument or disagreement...My ex doesn’t like to be wrong, and fights to win. S/he'll say anything to get what he/she wants. My ex refused to argue; if saying, 'I don’t want to talk about it' didn’t work, then s/he would leave.My ex was willing to talk it out until we reach an agreement (even if it was to agree to disagree).Question 2 of 7 3. After we had a discussion or argument about an issue...My ex had a hard time letting it go; and often end up using it as ammunition to reinforce his/her point in future disagreements.My ex could let it go and try to uphold any compromises we had agreed to.My ex would uphold what I promised for a week or so but usually go back to the way things were before.Question 3 of 7 4. When I told my ex my concerns about our relationship or something s/he did that was upsetting...My ex had a hard time not interrupting to respond to each and every thing as soon as it was said.My ex got defensive and usually ended up trying to change my mind, or just stormed out. My ex listened carefully to what I was saying and let me finish before responding. Question 4 of 7 5. When I did something that annoyed or upset my ex, s/he usually...Held it inside and started acting passive aggressive until one day out of the blue would blow up.Scold me or criticize me making a sarcastic remark.Told me in a calm, loving way how it made him or her feel.Question 5 of 7 6. When my ex was happy about something I did, and felt good about our relationship...My ex frequently acknowledged my positive traits and shared any good feelings about our relationship.My ex usually said thank you for things I did, but preferred not to talk to me about his or her feelings.My ex had a hard time telling me what s/he thought or felt.Question 6 of 7 7. When I shared how I felt about my ex and talked about our future...It made my ex very uncomfortable. S/he would get quiet, stall for more time, or change the subject. My ex would say what s/he thought I wanted to hear.My ex would share his/her true thoughts and feelings too.Question 7 of 7 Loading...
